There are times when you will find that you and your girlfriend are ravenous for some great conversation with deeper meaning. It’ s always fun to get a little more intense and it definitely keeps things more interesting. To maintain an exciting relationship you have to dig deeper below the surface . Get the gears in your heads turning and working by asking , as well as discussing the follow 120 deep questions below to ask your girlfriend !

Deep Questions That Relate To Her

1 . What would you say that your personal philosophy is?
2 . What is something that you would never change about yourself , both physically and mentally?
3 . What does a absolutely perfect day and night look like to you ?
4 . Are you a people person ? Why or why not?
5 . Do you believe materialistic items are more important , less important or equally important to experiences?
6 . Do you believe in the term , “ Don ’ t fix it if it isn’ t broken ”?
7 . What do you think is the most shallow thing that a person can do ?
8 . What is something that you think is universally rude and uncomfortable to do in public?
9 . What would you like to do with your organs when you pass away, would you donate them to science or no?
10 . How do you think you help the broken system , such as poverty?
11 . Do you believe in protecting the environment or do you think that it is a lost cause?
12 . Do you ever have trouble speaking in public? If so , why do you think that is ?
13 . What age are you absolutely dreading and why?
14 . What is one thing that you have done that you wish you hadn ’ t?
15 . Who do you wish that you could be more like right now and why?
16 . What word do you think really, truly describes who you are as a person ?
17 . Do you think that you were born in the wrong decade? Which decade would you rather be in , besides this one?
18 . Do you believe that you were someone else in a previous life?
19 . Do you think that winning the lottery would be a good thing for you or a bad thing for you ?

Deep Questions About Her Life, Past and Future

1 . What are some of the ‘ demons ’ in your closet ?
2 . What is one memory you wish you could crawl back into for one day ?
3 . Who is someone in your life that you want to be like when you are older?
4 . What secret haunts you to this very day ?
5 . What was the hardest thing that you ever had to get through as a kid ?
6 . Are you a child of divorce ?
7 . Do you think that you were raised the right way? Why or why not?
8 . How do you want to raise your future children ? What things would you do differently than your parents?
9 . What will you fight for until the day that you die?
10 . What is the earliest memory that you have? What age were you ?
11 . When in your life do you think that you were at your most happy ?
12 . What is something that you saw someone do that changed the way you think on a certain subject ?
13 . Do you think there was something from your childhood that traumatized you ?
14 . Have you ever felt like giving up in the past ? Why ?
15 . What is one memory that you wish you could erase from your mind permanently ?
16 . What is one memory that you hope you never, ever forget?
17 . What did you dream about doing as a career when your were a child ?
18 . What was one dream you ’ ve had that was absolutely crazy ?

Deep Questions That Relate To You

1 . What scares you most about the relationship that we have with each other?
2 . If you could change one thing about me and the way I treat you , what would you change ?
3 . Do you think that we can lead a long, happy life together? Why or why not?
4 . Do you think that I would make a good father, if we ever had kids?
5 . If we could only do one activity together for the rest of our lives , what would you choose for it to be?
6 . Where would you want to runaway with me to , if you could pick any destination in the world?
7 . What do you really think about the relationship we have together?
8 . Do you like the time we spend with each other, or should we do something differently?
9 . What is the most romantic memory of us you have?
10 . Do you think I have an irrational fear of something?
11 . What is my favorite way to unwind ? Do you think it really relaxes me ?
12 . When was the first time you looked and me and realized that you were in love with me?
13 . Was my first impression on you a good one or a bad one?
14 . Have I changed a lot since we first started dating? If so , explain.
15 . What is one thing I do for you that you are truly grateful for ?
16 . What do you think our children would be like? Would they be more like you or more like me ?
17 . Do you think that our communication with each other is good or bad?

Deep Questions Regarding Politics and Religion

1 . What religion do you consider yourself , if you are religious at all ?
2 . How did you become the religion that you are today ?
3 . What do you think happens when we die? Is there an afterlife or is there nothingness ? What about reincarnation?
4 . Do you believe that people being executed for crimes should still be allowed today or not ? Why or why not?
5 . What are your thoughts on gay marriage ?
6 . Do you consider yourself Republican , Liberal or Libertarian? If none of those , then what do you identify as?
7 . How do you think that the people ’ s tax dollars should be spent ?
8 . Do you think churches should be tax exempt?
9 . Are you pro -life or pro -choice ? Why ?
10 . What cause do you think needs the most funding out of all the other causes there are ?
11 . Do you think the way the education system is set up is okay or does it need refining? Explain .
12 . Do you think that all politicians are corrupt?
13 . What are your thoughts on atheism ?
14 . Do you think that people should have the right to end their life when they are terminally ill or do you think it should remain majorly illegal ?
15 . What is one law that you think should be revised ? Why ?
16 . What do you think about the prison system ; is it working for us?
17 . What is something that should never be talked about with strangers when it comes to politics ?

Deep Questions For Critical Thinking

1 . What is something that you think most people are all commonly scared of ?
2 . Do you think that environment has a lot to due with how someone turns out when they are grown up?
3 . Why do you think there is a war between poor people and rich people?
4 . Do you think corporations are evil?
5 . What do you think is really in the food we are fed ?
6 . Do you think that racism is still
a big problem? Why or why not?
7 . What is intimacy really about? What really bonds people to one another ?
8 . When does someone become a bad person ?
9 . Do you believe in evolution? If so , do you think that we are evolving quickly or slowly still ?
10 . What is the most vital thing someone can do to improve their character ?
11 . Do you believe morality is learned or innate upon birth?
12 . How do you think that war is affecting us? Where do you think most war stems from?
13 . What do you think would most realistically cause an apocalypse?
14 . Do you think that people need human interaction to remain sane?
15 . What behaviors do you think reflect on someone’ s trauma?
16 . Do you think that humans will ever actually live on another habitable planet or not?
17 . What impact do you think the digital age is having on current and upcoming generations ? Is it good or bad? Explain .

Deep Questions About Love and Romance

1 . What are some boundaries in a relationship that should never be crossed ?
2 . How do you think cheating affects someone who is being cheated on and aware of it ?
3 . Do you believe that love can last forever or do you think that people eventually just ‘ settle ’?
4 . How would you describe a perfect relationship ?
5 . How would you describe a poisoned relationship?
6 . What makes someone a good partner ?
7 . How important do you think physical connection is between two people vs. the mental connection they share? Which one trumps the other?
8 . Do you think that age matters in a relationship or is just a number?
9 . What do you think that two people must have in common to connect with each other?
10 . Do you believe there is such a thing as, ‘ Love at first sight’ or do you feel as if there is only lust at first sight ?
11 . Do you think sociopaths are capable of actually loving someone or are they just pretending?
12 . What is one sign that a relationship is dead?
13 . Would you leave me if I were in a very serious accident and needed a lot of medical care or would you stick around to take care of me?
14 . What do you think is something that you should never have to compromise on in a relationship ?
15 . How would you handle codependency in a relationship? Do you think that it is healthy or unhealthy ?
16 . What is something that you should always be able to rely on your partner for ?
17 . Do you think that long distance relationships are really worth it ? Why or why not?
18 . Do you think it ’ s okay to settle down at an early age or should people get more experience before making a choice ?

Deep Questions That Are Very Serious

1 . Do you think that suicide is an okay thing for someone to do if they really hate their life ?
2 . If today was your last day alive, what would you choose to do all day long ?
3 . What do you think is the difference between living and existing , if there is one?
4 . Do you think someone can truly learn from their mistakes ?
5 . What do you want to remember when you are laying on your deathbed ? What do you want to be proud of yourself for ?
6 . What impact do you want to leave on the world? Why ? Do you think that you will achieve leaving that impact ?
7 . What do you think is a sign that it ’ s time to let go of something?
8 . Do you think there is anyone out there that would take a bullet for you ? Is there anyone that you would take a bullet for ?
9 . What is something that is holding you back in life? What can you do to change it ?
10 . What resource is being wasted the most?
11 . What advice would you offer to your 10 year old self if you could?
12 . Do you think that we create the reality we live in ?
13 . Why are people afraid of losing things they don ’ t really have?
14 . Do you think family is important in today ’ s world?
15 . How can we combat terrorism?
16 . Do you think that people actually have souls?
17 . Do you think there is life on other planets in the universe ?

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